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16 Nov 2009

Ellen on ‘Oprah’: "Why gay marriage matters"

Appearing in their first joint interview since they've been married, Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi talk about how they met and marrying while same-sex marriage was legal in California. 

 

 

Talkshow host Ellen DeGeneres appeared on The Oprah Show last week alongside wife Portia de Rossi and discussed everything from how she and de Rossi met, getting married and marriage equality. 

The pair married in August 2008 during the brief period same-sex marriage was legal in California. 

"I feel very fortunate, very lucky that I found that connection," DeGeneres said of her wife, calling her "the smartest, kindest, most wonderful woman that you’ll ever, ever know." 

Portia de Rossi and Ellen DeGeneres (right)

"[Marriage is] a legal stamp of validity. It’s hard to know it feels until it happens," de Rossi told Oprah. 

"I hope everyone gets to have that feeling. The thing about being a gay couple is that, in the past, you referred to your wife and there were quotation marks around it and people could snicker about it. Now, it’s fact, it’s law - she’s my wife. I get to say she’s my wife and it’s a fact."

The Australian actress added that she knew DeGeneres was the one for her when she first met her.
"But it took me three years to actually tell her how I felt about her, because I was on 'Ally McBeal' at the time and wasn't living as an openly gay person," de Rossi said. "I was closeted and very, very afraid that if I talked about being gay it would be the end of my career. So I wasn't about to date the most famous lesbian in the world."

The Australian actress said on the show that she knew DeGeneres was the one for her when she first met her.

"But it took me three years to actually tell her how I felt about her, because I was on Ally McBeal at the time and wasn't living as an openly gay person," de Rossi said. "I was closeted and very, very afraid that if I talked about being gay it would be the end of my career. So I wasn't about to date the most famous lesbian in the world."

 

 

In the December issue of O: The Oprah Magazine, DeGeneres, 51, tells Oprah Winfrey that she and Portia, 36, "are perfect for each other.” Four magazine covers are available, and see Ellen’s hilarious mock-covers she created before the shoot and photos from behind the scenes of the cover shoot. 

Reader's Comments

1. 2009-11-16 22:02
Hi all

I am following our Ellen on twitter :-)
Someday Ellen will follow my tweets, I wish.

1JAPAN tribe [men only] : tokyofit
http://www.fridae.com/tribe:494/1japan
Comment edited on 2009-11-19 07:40:57
Comment #2 was deleted by its author on 2009-11-17 09:45
3. 2009-11-17 08:57
I love her comment about NOT being afraid of CONFRONTATION. Some people just need to be bitch-slapped upside the head sometimes for their prejudiced, ignorant, antiquated views about GLBT people - especially the a'holes who use RELIGION to try and keep us down. Keep it honest, keep it real, but don't take any crap...just like Ellen.
4. 2009-11-17 09:14
Hey Ellen,
Why don't you come and pay a visit to the Malaysian gay community and impart some of your 'bloke knocking in the head' wisdom for most gay men here who don't even know how to be a friend, much less to walk down the aisle for a lifetime's legal commitment known as 'marriage', something unknown for the GLBTIs here?
The only 'marriage' we know here is the one on how to make the media and social forces happy besides rearing a whole farmyard of self clones for the family lineage. Yeah I know, as Tina Turner sang: "What's love got to do with it?" Nothing exactly.
5. 2009-11-17 09:46
Awww! Who doesn't love Ellen?! =)

This is a smack in the faces to all those cynical gay people who always believe it's senseless to fight the rights for gay marriage.
6. 2009-11-17 09:46
Ellen's an inspiration and I'm glad she and Portia are living such a blissful life together. I applaud Portia for feeling more comfortable with her own sexuality because dating one of the most famous lesbians in the world takes guts :D
7. 2009-11-17 15:14
Ellen deGeneres is one helluva of a fine woman!!! And of course, her lovely wife Portia deRossi too;-)
Thank you for being an inspiration.
8. 2009-11-19 21:29
Any parent (in their right open mind) would be proud if anyone of their offsprings turn out half as great as Ellen. Ellen is loving, brave, compassionate, honest, funny, forgiving, helpful ...etc...a massive positive role model and icon for everyone, not just for gay people, but strangely enough she threatens the Singapore media.

See how small minds implode without any need for logic or truth.

Bless you Ellen and Portia. Wishing you both many more great happy years ahead! Hugs!
9. 2009-11-20 08:13
Agreed, she's really great; such a shame she gets censored in Singapore, as Jammy mentions.
10. 2009-11-20 12:38
I live quite comfortably and openly with my partner. It's an inconvenience that we can't have the legal and social freedoms accorded to straight married couples, but if those freedoms were extended I couldn't give two hoots whether or not my partner was referred to as my 'husband', my 'civil-law partner' or my 'bit of rumpo', so long as we're treated no differently than straight couples by our families, the state or the police.

Marriage in a white dress, blessed by a priest and sacred under God is a Christian insitution. As an atheist, it has no place in my life, and wouldn't were I straight. A certificate guaranteeing me common-law status with my partner and the opportunity to adopt or father children would be quite enough for me, thank you! So long as you love eachother, who cares about some quotation marks?
11. 2009-11-21 16:50
Most self professed christians are evil-period! and they are either unaware or choose to ignore their great sin against mankind; because their little black book from their god says so.
How can anyone top that when your god says you must enslave, hate, discriminate, emasculate, judge..etc..all those delicious forbidden vice and flavors mankind takes so naturally to if left unrestrained?

And so called christians wonder why they all will be subjected to the Great Tribulation and be persecuted during the end times. You asked for it, you get it back 3x 3 x 3. Simple.
Other faiths call it Retribution, a known Cosmic Law; as old as homosexuality itself and earlier beyond.
Comment edited on 2009-11-21 16:54:49
12. 2010-02-12 02:10
jammyboi, oh please, dont hate the religion hate the human it self, its not the Christ that hurts you but the human it self. duh..

anyway, who wrote the bible? HUMAN.. so why would you care..

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